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Goodbye and Good Riddance
"I'm tired of being chained to myself twenty-four hours a day."
"When someone doesn't like me I like them. . . when someone likes me I don't like them."
Tags:self esteem, self-esteem, self-loathing, mental health, mental state, mental states, attitude problem, attitude problems, friend, friends, friendship group, making friends, social skill, social skills, therapist, therapists, self-hatred, self-destructive, destructive behaviour, destructive behavior
"I'm not sure if I'm beginning to feel good about myself of if I'm starting to despise you."
Tags:therapy, self hate, self hatred, self-hate, self hatred, self-hatred, therapists, therapist, counselor, counselors, counseling, counsellor, counsellors, client, clients, bad client, bad clients, insult, insulted, insults, insulting, counselling, psychology, psychologist, psychologists, psychiatry, psychiatrist, psychiatrists, psychoanalysis, mental health, mental health issues
"It's very me, but I hate myself."
Tags:relatable, personal style, personal taste, personal tastes, lamp, lamps, home decoration, decorating, home improvements, self esteem, self esteem, low self esteem, low self-esteem, self critical, self-critical, self hate, self-hate, self hatred, self-hatred, decision, decisions, making decisions, decor, shopping, shopper, shoppers
Caution: Perfectionists at Work Next 1/4 Mile.
"I like the way I look, but I hate my personality."
Tags:beauty standards, beauty ideal, beauty ideals, feminine beauty standards, feminine beauty ideal, gender issues, body positivity, personality, personalities, bad personality, bad personalities, no personality, modern life, modern times, modern attitudes, self hate, self hatred, self-hate, self-hatred, self critical, self-critical, priorities, bad priorities, wrong priorities, vain, vanity
ob wasn't being completely honest with himself. Couldn't even make eye contact.
"Look at Bradley! That vile, loathsome creep! He tries to appear good-natured, but he can't hide the carrion-stench of his nasty black thoughts and evil emotions bubbling up from the dark recesses of his snakepit mind."
Tags:co-worker, colleague, neighbour, misinterpret, misinterprets, misinterpreting, pot and kettle, negative thought, negative thoughts, negative thinking, suspicion, suspicions, projection, projecting, projections, thinking, image, anger, loathing, hatred, innocence, work, office, politics, negativity, misunderstanding, self-loathing, self-hatred, inner monologue, inner monologues, paranoid, paranoia, damaging thought, damaging thoughts
"I found my doppleganger. He was trolling me on social media."
'He's always had a problem with authority.'
'Unlike a lot of bosses, ours isn't shy about admitting when he's wrong. And THAT's the problem!'
"Actually, your self-loathing is beginning to make sense...."
'The first thing you have to do is learn to like yourself.'
'These feelings of self-loathing that you're experiencing are, at least in your case, quite understandable.'
"Oh, no - not you first thing in the morning!"
"I tend to get more done when I leave self-loathing off the to-do list."
Ed, shown here with a few of his long-standing critics.
"All you ever do is criticise!"
Tags:bathroom, bathroom mirror, reflections, criticise, criticism, critic, critics, bathrooms, reflection, reflections, self-hatred, self conscious, self-conscious, self-esteem, self esteem, self confidence, self-confidence, self criticism, self-criticism, self-identity, negative personality, negative personalities
"How long are you going to keep blaming yourself for that?"
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"Wow! So you think my chronic self-hatred may just be an undiagnosed case of lactose intolerance?"
Tags:psychiatrist, psychiatry, psychology, psychologist, therapy, lactose, self hatred, self-hatred, hate, hates, hatred, intolerance, intolerant, cow, allergy, medical, condition, mental health, counselor, lactose intolerant, lactose intolerance, lactose intolerants, dairy allergy, dairy allergies, dairy intolerance, dairy intolerant, dairy intolerants
"The truth is, I've been my own worst enemy for years, and I'm SICK of it. So I was wondering, Jim, if you'd be willing to be my own worst enemy for a while!"
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"You're too self-critical."