"This says the quickest way to self-confidence is changing the questions to ask yourself. Instead of 'What happens if I fail?'...ask yourself 'What happens if I succeed?' Of course! That makes perfect sense! Wait...what if it doesn't work?"
"OK...I've worked all week on my self-confidence. So asking Smiley to the movies should be easy! C'mon Baldo, you can do it! Just concentrate...and it'll happen!"